{"id":26272,"date":"2025-04-30T02:54:45","date_gmt":"2025-04-30T02:54:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/usdailys.com\/?p=26272"},"modified":"2025-04-30T02:54:45","modified_gmt":"2025-04-30T02:54:45","slug":"dad-completes-london-marathon-with-20kg-on-back-in-memory-of-his-son","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/usdailys.com\/?p=26272","title":{"rendered":"Dad completes London Marathon with 20kg on back in memory of his son"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\"><strong><em>Warning: This article contains discussion of cancer which some readers may find distressing<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">A dad who completed the London Marathon wore a backpack with 20kg of weight in it to honour the memory of his son.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Those taking on the marathon in the capital yesterday (27 April) might have spotted a man wearing a shirt saying: &#8220;I&#8217;m carrying 20kg. The weight of my son when he died at 6. The weight of grief. The weight of cancer.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">He&#8217;d have been wearing a backpack with the name &#8216;Hugh&#8217; on it, along with many other names.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">That&#8217;s Ceri Menai-Davis, a\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ladbible.com\/parenting\">devoted dad<\/a>\u00a0who has been raising money for his charity,\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/itsneveryou.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">It&#8217;s Never You<\/a>, which aims to help the families of children who are diagnosed with\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ladbible.com\/cancer\">cancer<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Speaking to LADbible, Ceri opened up about carrying his son&#8217;s weight with him on the London Marathon, with him having raised over \u00a325,000 and counting for charity in a fundraiser, which you can donate to\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.justgiving.com\/page\/cerimarathon2025?utm_medium=FR&amp;utm_source=CL&amp;utm_campaign=015\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He explained that his son was\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ladbible.com\/health\">diagnosed<\/a>\u00a0with cancer in October 2020, and after six months of Hugh receiving chemotherapy, Ceri felt he &#8216;needed to do something to get myself fit&#8217;, and applied for a place in the\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ladbible.com\/marathon\">London Marathon<\/a>.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">Halfway round carrying 20kgs around the <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/LondonMarathon?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@LondonMarathon<\/a> the weight my 6 year old son Hugh was when he died from cancer in 2021! Please help get me to \u00a325k! <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/U1m8FxgOTj\">https:\/\/t.co\/U1m8FxgOTj<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/ZporkJtb2p\">pic.twitter.com\/ZporkJtb2p<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 It\u2019s Never You Charity (@ItsNeverYou22) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ItsNeverYou22\/status\/1916495916581716206?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">April 27, 2025<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Hugh passed his first set of treatments in May 2021, with Ceri saying the boy acted &#8216;like a superhero&#8217; all the way through as he took every treatment without complaint, and his dad started training for the marathon.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">He remembered how on 27 August of that year he went out for a training run and his wife Frances brought Hugh along in the car to watch, with the dad remembering how his son was shouting &#8216;come on daddy, come on daddy&#8217; to encourage him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Hugh&#8217;s sixth birthday was on 30 August, but sadly two days later, the child relapsed and he died on 18 September.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Speaking of his son&#8217;s last days, Ceri explained that he asked Hugh what he was going to do and the boy told him &#8216;go do it daddy, go and do it, go run\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ladbible.com\/uk-news\">London<\/a>&#8216;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">When Hugh was laid to rest he was buried with the medal Ceri got from running the London Marathon, and the boy&#8217;s parents started the\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ladbible.com\/charity\">charity<\/a>\u00a0It&#8217;s Never You after thinking what else they could do to make their son proud.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\">\n<div class=\"resizable-image_wrapper__LRQlr\"><img 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https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=1&amp;width=2048&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/bltcd74acc1d0a99f3a\/blt75d5b6e1ff6c0f25\/680fa340028a25552a944d29\/ceri-hugh.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=1&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/bltcd74acc1d0a99f3a\/blt75d5b6e1ff6c0f25\/680fa340028a25552a944d29\/ceri-hugh.jpg 3840w\" alt=\"Ceri Menai-Davis carried 20kg with him on the London Marathon this year in honour of his son Hugh (Ceri Menai-Davis)\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" data-nimg=\"fill\" \/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><cite class=\"image-credit_imageCredit__YMlqS\">Ceri Menai-Davis carried 20kg with him on the London Marathon this year in honour of his son Hugh (Ceri Menai-Davis)<\/cite><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;Ever since after that I&#8217;ve always said &#8216;right, I&#8217;ve got to continue to do it&#8217; and do something to make him proud,&#8221; Ceri said of the decision to start a charity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;And then my wife and I started the charity It&#8217;s Never You up because we felt completely isolated as parents having a child with cancer, because, quite rightly, the focus was on the child, but no one ever asks, &#8216;are you okay as a parent?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;They just think you&#8217;re going to be strong. It&#8217;s the worst time of your life, really, and so we started up to look after parents who had children with cancer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;We&#8217;re doing loads of things trying to change the law with Hugh&#8217;s Law, which is trying to give parents\u00a0<a class=\"anchor_link__6t7IO\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ladbible.com\/money\">financial support<\/a>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">2025 is the fourth time Ceri has run the London Marathon, having previously done it wearing a cape with 200 names on it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">This time around he wore a rucksack with 20kg of weight in it and the names of 450 children on it.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\">\n<div class=\"resizable-image_wrapper__LRQlr\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"article-image_image__XvzgU\" 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I&#8217;ve got two beautiful boys at home as well, and it&#8217;s the weight of grief that&#8217;s on your shoulders. It never leaves you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;The 20 kilos was to signify not just only Hugh&#8217;s weight, but the weight of what childhood cancer is on a parent.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Ceri explained that this time around he &#8216;walked very briskly&#8217; for the London Marathon, and before he set off he put out a call on social media to say that if anyone who had a child with cancer or had lost their child to cancer wanted to give him their name he&#8217;d put it on the rucksack.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\">\n<div class=\"resizable-image_wrapper__LRQlr\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"article-image_image__XvzgU\" src=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/bltcd74acc1d0a99f3a\/blt134a357b20e79137\/680fa3f7073e1b29302e592b\/backpack.jpg\" 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weight of doing all of this.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">He said: &#8220;As you walk past, people say, &#8216;go on, Hugh&#8217;. It brings a tear to your eye, because he, I know he&#8217;s there with me, doing it in my mind and on my shoulder, doing it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;The last 50 meters, when I saw the finish line, I burst into tears. 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